10 Things Your Doctor Never Told You About Giving Birth

Hey there mama-to-be! So, you might be feeling a little overwhelmed with all the information (or lack thereof) about giving birth. But don’t worry, I’ve got you! Ive done it twice!

Here are 10 things your doctor probably didn’t tell you about giving birth in Bangor Maine that will help you feel more prepared and in control. 

(And hey, if these pique your interest, bring these up to your doctor at the next appointment!) 

1. You don’t have to give birth in the hospital.

Giving birth at home or in a birth center can provide a more relaxed and intimate setting for the birth of your baby. It allows you to have more control over the birthing process and can provide a more personalized experience. This option is safe for low-risk pregnancies and has similar or better outcomes compared to hospital births.

Question for your doctor: Would he/she support you and work with a home birth midwife if you decided to go this route?

2. Epidurals are not the only form of pain relief available during labor.

Epidurals are a common form of pain relief during labor, but they are not the only option available! Other forms of pain relief include nitrous oxide, intramuscular injections, birthing tub, and natural methods such as hypnobirthing, acupuncture and massage. These options can provide a more natural and less invasive form of pain relief.

Question for your doctor: What other pain relief options do they see often that’s effective other than epidural? 

3. You can bring your own music or sounds to the delivery room.

Music can have a powerful impact on our emotions, and it can help create a calm and soothing environment for you during labor. You can bring your own playlist, a sound machine, or even your own voice to help you relax and focus during labor.

Question for your doctor: Can I bring music to the birthing room?

4. Birthing pools can help you feel more comfortable and relaxed during labor.

Warm water can help ease the pain and discomfort of contractions, and it also allows you to move around more easily, which can help the baby move down the birth canal. Birthing pools can also provide a sense of privacy and intimacy during labor. And yes- EMMC in Bangor Maine does have a tub for laboring women now! The only downfall is you can not deliver in the tub and will need to move back to your room for delivery. The showers also have a peanut ball for you to sit on in the shower if that is helpful for you!

Question for your doctor: Are there birth pools at the hospital or another way I can use water to relax?

5. You will probably poop during labor (and that’s okay!).

Truth be told- I totally did. Whatever! It’s a normal and natural part of the birthing process, and your nurses and doctors are used to it. Don’t let this concern hold you back, it’s nothing to be embarrassed about.

Question for your doctor: What happens if/when I poop during labor?

6. Birthing positions – there are many different positions that can help make the birthing process easier.

There are various birthing positions that can help make the birthing process easier, such as standing up, sitting down, on your hands and knees, or even lying down. Experiment with different positions to find what feels most comfortable for you.

Question for your doctor: In what positions are you willing to help me birth my baby? 

Can I be real with you? You can and should still be moving and changing positions even when you have an epidural! The nurses and providers in Bangor, Maine are well trained these days on how to engage baby and use different positions to help make your delivery as smooth as possible. ask your provider ahead of time if you are curious about this! and let your desires be heard when you arrive at the hospital to deliver.  

7. Doulas are a great support and aren’t only used for birth.

A doula is a professional trained to provide emotional and physical support to a woman and her partner during pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum period. A doula can help you with relaxation techniques, provide emotional support, and advocate for your wishes during birth.

Question for your doctor: Do you work with doulas often? Are there any you recommend? Additionally I would clarify with your doctor how many people are allowed in the room while you deliver if you plan to be at a hospital. Many hospitals in Maine are saying maximum of 2 support people (Including your doula and birth photographer!)

8. You can eat and drink during labor, if you want to.

Having a light snack can help keep your energy levels up. It’s important to listen to your body and your healthcare provider during labor, and to make sure you are well hydrated and nourished.

Question for your doctor: Under what circumstances will I not be allowed to eat or drink in labor?

9. The power of the mind – visualization and other relaxation techniques can help during labor.

Visualization and relaxation techniques such as hypnobirthing, yoga, and meditation can help you stay calm and focused during labor. It can also help to lower stress hormones and increase endorphins, which can make labor more manageable.

Question for your doctor: Is there anything I can do now to learn how to cope with labor?

10. Cesarean sections are not as scary as they seem.

C-sections are a common form of delivery and can be planned or unplanned. Your doctor and nurses will take great care of you and your baby during the procedure. It’s important to remember that a c-section is a surgical procedure and there are risks associated with it, but it can also save the lives of both mother and baby in certain situations.

Question for your doctor: In what circumstances do you perform c-sections? 

So, there you have it, Mama. You’re armed with some new information that will hopefully help you feel more confident and excited about your birth!